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Monday, April 24, 2023

Perception

Still Karen here. And, it will be for a while. 

Day 10. Every day, there are new developments. News about little things could seem like forward motion or falling back, depending on the color of your own glasses, rose color or otherwise. Jim opened his eyes Saturday for the first time! Perception: Forward motion. How can you take it any other way? His eyes opened only a tiny crack. Hardly enough to see his color. It's minimal forward motion from a medical viewpoint. To me, it's big.

And more on Sunday! Eyebrows raised responding to names or comments, music and birthday wishes. His eyes opened several times, and this time enough to see color and movement. Big, big.

Today. His eyes opened wide. About half way. Was he seeing me? You bet! And, I grabbed the nurse and made her look! Because if they don't see it, they can't document it as an event. Medically.

And, then in response to voices in the room, his brother, me, Jim made another appearance. Eye color showing. Looking and raising lids as if to clear his vision. His eyes stayed open for 2 to 3 minutes! There were more appearances throughout the afternoon. 

Little by little, equipment is being moved out of his room. Ventilator is gone. Oxygen is there, of course, to keep his levels up and help promote healing. No. He is not moving on his own. Yet. No. His lungs are not clear. Yet. Yes. He is better today than yesterday. Yes. He retreats to wherever that healing place is. No. He doesn't always respond to requests. He never does anyway. Yes. He's black and blue and purple and he has lots of staples in his scalp. 

Perception: how you see something is a choice. I like Jim's point of view. He always looks for the good in a situation or a person.

I'm going to continue to try to be more like that. Not to spend time wondering why or being angry. But, saying thank you for even the smallest thing. His eyes opened.


21 comments:

  1. Can I get a Hallelujah! The Mighty Physician at work!

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    1. He has theMcManamon blood and determination in him. He will triumph!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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    2. Each little step is a step to recovery. These all seem like a huge step to recovery to me! So many arms are wrapped around you both in this time of Jim’s healing.

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    3. Praise God. Keep these coming Karen. Every time I see something, I stop and pray!

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  2. Well, I'll second that! I think five days from now is going to look very different and we will see much progress.

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  3. Cousin Bob and ShirleyApril 24, 2023 at 9:08 PM

    Glad he is off the ventilator. That is real progress. Please keep us updated.

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    1. I will be writing in the blog to attempt to keep people updated with Jim's status. Please check daily. I write as I can and appreciate all your concerns.

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  4. Amen. God is healing him at His own pace and you get to witness that amazing healing up close. God let’s nothing go to waste. He will use this for His glory.

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  5. Thanks for the news. Cheering for both of you!

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  6. Some good news, no matter how small, is wonderful. Hang in there buddy from an old classmate at SVHS!

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    1. Thank you! And when you visit SVHS, look at the athletic case that has his track records which I believe still stand!

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  7. Praying for recovery, patience and sending bushels of love. Aunt Joyce

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    1. Keep sending bushels! We'll get a bigger room to accommodate if necessary! Thanks, Aunt Joyce

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  8. I am continuing to pray. God is good. Hang in there!

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    1. Yes, please! Now is not the time to stop. Jim needs all the strength he can get!

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  9. Praise God !!! Awesome job Jim! Thank you for updates Karen! Continued prayers 🙏

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    1. He is doing an awesome job! Thanks for the support.

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